The 12 Levels of Dread: Level 6 – Wife Game

“I want to feel passion, I want to feel pain. I want to weep at the sound of your name. Come make me laugh, come make me cry… just make me feel alive.”

-Joey Lauren Adams

Today’s lesson in Dread Game revolves around Level 6 in the 12 Levels of Dread – Gaming your wife. Take a moment to think back on your marriage. If you’ve been married for a few (or many) years now, chances are the original spark that fueled your marriage at the beginning has faded and a steady routine has settled in. It’s only common for men to crave routine and patterns. That’s how we tend to operate best as having to constantly adapt to changes wears us down mentally. Establishing routines and patterns allows us to focus on the big things throughout the week without sweating the small stuff. Unfortunately, this downside to this predisposition is that it causes stagnation within the marriage.

Remember, women are creatures driven by their emotions. They crave that emotional roller-coaster and will do whatever they can to get their fix and it doesn’t seem they’re too choosy on what emotions are elicited as long as SOMETHING is. You are tasked with the burden of deciding how she will get her fix. If you sit around and do nothing, she will start fights and be passive aggressive with you. However, if you’re proactive you can head her off at the pass and steer her towards a more favorable set of emotions.

The best way to accomplish this is to apply game tactics to your wife. So easy a cave man can do it, right? Well yes and no. If you’ve been married for any amount of time chances are your wife has gotten used to your tactics and is fairly well insulated. Part of gaming your wife will be passing her various shit tests (hence why the foundation levels are so important) as well as adding excitement and variety to her life.

Think back to when you and your wife were first dating:

  • Remember the passion and new experiences you both enjoyed?
  • What kinds of dates did you take her out on?
  • Where’s the craziest place you had sex?
  • What originally drew you to her and her to you?

Bring these elements back to your marriage with spontaneous vigor.  Grab your lady and begin dancing with her when a slow song comes on.  Fling her over your shoulder and carry her to the bedroom for a weekend afternoon romp.  Go camping in your backyard complete with campfire and smores.  If you’re making her smile, then she has no time to frown.

But, But, But…

I know what many of you are thinking…

“How am I supposed to game my wife?  The passion has gone stale.  I don’t have the energy/time/creativity.”

If this is your mindset, then you’re right.  You won’t be able to game your wife.  It gets harder as time goes on, true, and a lot of times it might feel like work especially starting out.  If your marriage has gone stale and you’re working on reigniting the passion, you’re going to have to think of it as a long term investment.  You probably won’t see much initial returns on your investments.  Your wife might be wary or suspicious.  If things are really bad, she will even reject your advances, but keep at them.  Brush off the losses and keep improving in the previous levels of Dread Game.

Capitalize on the moments your wife opens up to you, but don’t rely on them.  Make your own openings.  Take charge and do things that excite her and leave her wondering what’s next.

Don’t mistake that every gesture you make needs to be grandiose in scale.  It can be as simple as going out for ice cream and playfully sneaking bites of hers when she’s not looking or going to a park and swinging side by side on the swings at night when it’s quiet and the stars are out.  The most important things are A) you’re spending time together and B) you’re both enjoying it.

For those of you steeped in the Red Pill concepts, just remember to employ these few basic concepts you should already be familiar with:

  • Regular and escalating kino (physical touch for the less savvy)
  • Get her hamster running by using push/pull dynamics
  • Be constantly pulling her into your frame
  • Don’t take things seriously.  While not a Red Pill term, remember this should be fun.  Make sexual innuendos, cop a feel at random times, go nuts.

In closing, your wife married you because you made life fun.  As time goes on, the daily grind can remove the shine on your relationship.  Take conscientious steps every single day to bring that fire back to your marriage.  Make your marriage as fun as when you were dating.  Your wife will adore you for it.

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Author: Jak

Jak, married and father of three, seeks to help the Red-Pill Community take its next step past the petty cynicism and ineffectual anger. While he recognizes that men are significantly handicapped by the modern legal system and culture, he doesn’t accept that traditional marriage is untenable in today’s social climate.

Rather, men must be willing to adapt to this new world by implementing new tactics and approaches to maintaining a balance of power. Jak is here to provide you with these lessons.

  • Jim Johnson

    Excellent article, gaming your wife needs to be ingrained into your marriage. Sneaking a kiss, “accidental” innuendos or kino, grinding on her in random places, teasing her, et cetera.

    • Jak

      Indeed. This is also one of the first things to go in a marriage; something I struggle with myself, but am working to improve.

  • Macho’s Bride

    Perhaps this might sound strange, but my hilarious alpha guy early in our marriage would sing a different version of “Rubber Ducky” sung by one of the muppets from Bert and Ernie of Sesame Street. It would start off as,” S*ut-puppy, you’re the one….” while grabbing my chest making squeezing sounds. The first year of our marriage I had a few “s*ut-puppy” Christmas gifts as well. Early in the Christmas season we moved to a rental and my brother and sister in laws helped. Once I found them sitting around snickering in our new place (they were in jr. high at the time) one asked the other, “Who is s*ut-puppy?” I nearly died!! …. all fun of course, but even now it somewhat embarrasses me thinking about it.

    His favorite thing is to provoke me in such a way to get a smart-alack remark. I told him recently to get some new material. :o)

    I can honestly say, with almost 30 years of marriage now, it does work. He still makes me laugh out loud and I adore as well as love him for it.

    Keep is spicy, gentlemen.

    • Jak

      Not going to lie, I about spit out my coffee visualizing the slut-puppy song followed by the boob grab. Hopefully he made the rubber ducky squeaking noise as he grabbed. Lol

  • Gundog

    When I first started dating my wife and we were driving on a road trip, I would randomly grab her nose, or fish hook her cheek and just hold it there for a while. When she would ask what I am doing, I would just say “establishing dominance.” Worked on my dog too.

    • Jim Johnson

      It is so laughable how many manginas are so afraid of giving their wife crap. “She would kill me if I did that!” is what they say. Perhaps, but only because they now view you as a pet with a wallet.

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