If you go the the gym and lift the same weight the same amount of reps each time, you wont progress after a certain point. Your body and muscles will adapt and you’ll just be spinning your wheels. The same can be said about other parts of your life as well. As men, we must constantly challenge ourselves to do better, to be more than who we were yesterday, and push limits because it is that fire inside us to overcome obstacles that keeps us on the correct path.
“The true meaning of life is to plant trees, under whose shade you do not expect to sit.”
Today I saw a short clip from a well-known PUA within the Red Pill community lamenting what his life has thus amounted to. As I watched the short clip, only 26 seconds long, I could see the regret across his face like a mask. Within this short clip, he utters a truth that cuts to the very core of what has driven men all throughout history. Continue reading “Leaving a Legacy”
One facet of the Christmas season that I’ve observed is that people let their dietary choices go out the window. People just accept that they’ll be shoveling junk food in their mouths and chugging excess booze the whole time just to make a “resolution” to eat healthy in January, which usually has them back home on their lazy asses within two weeks. As I prepare for my collaboration with Team WB Fitness next month, I’m going to keep my diet clean this month and I’ll share my plan on keeping myself from looking like Santa by Christmas
Trusting your gut is a phrase that makes perfect sense to some while making others cringe. As an INTP personality, I fall into the latter category, and struggle trusting my own instincts, preferring concrete proof before making decisions. While this might sound like a logical conclusion to many men out there, it has its drawbacks. Today, we’re digging into why and when you should trust your gut as well as steps to improving the accuracy of your instincts so you can wind up being right more often than not. Continue reading “Trusting Your Gut”
- The L/R Dynamic
- Blue and Pink Glasses
- Putting It All Together
For the month of December, I will be relieving Cynic of duty to cover a book I’ve been reading called Love & Respect. This book was suggested to me by a Twitter friend, Tex. Before I went out and bought the book, I decided to listen to some sermons centered around the message of Love & Respect and was so impressed I went out and bought it the next day.
When we discuss the ways in which men can work toward discovering and building our best selves, the word “meditation” gets dropped fairly often. However, not much ink has been spilled discussing how to use it effectively as part of a modern man’s routine. In fact, the idea of meditation is most likely to conjure up images of mommies in yoga pants sitting in the lotus position (contemplating the foam on their lattes) and swamis in orange robes sitting on a hilltop in Southern Asia (or Southern California). What has that got to do with the neomasculine man? And more importantly, how do you do it?
Last week we continued our Way of the Warlord program here at A Kings Castle. This is designed to be an interactive physical, mental, and martial arts program where the authors of the site give out a two week challenge to the readers to better ourselves and become better men. Today’s post is the mid point update where we will share our questions, triumphs, difficulties, and advice
Here at AKC we always advocate to take the route that may be more difficult, but it pays off in the end. You kill it in the gym, you crush it at work, and you’re the natural leader of your family, but we all need a bit of downtime. Recently I’ve realized that I wasn’t giving myself enough recovery, if any at all. We’ll discuss the importance of rest and downtime for dads and husbands who dominate life.
I tend to be a methodical man, taking a problem and working through it very analytically. Oftentimes, I will lay out a step-by-step process to handling a situation, either writing it down on paper or making a checklist in my mind.
This same analytical process comes to bear when I am trying to improve a skill set, be it a physical endeavor, an entrepreneurial venture, or a hobby. Throughout the course of my life, I have come across a few practices that I have found beneficial to helping me develop the skill in question. Continue reading “2 Steps to Improve at Any Skill”
When we embark on this journey as fathers and husbands, we are making a choice, but at that time it doesn’t seem like we are making such a monumental one. Things like getting married and choosing to have kids with your wife are the easy things. The other things that you chose at these times are to be the leader at all times. You’re constantly under scrutiny, but at the same time, they all hold you to the highest regard in the first place, and if not, you’ve screwed something up. Something recently made me think about all of this and how we’re always looked upon to be the one who leads.